Have you ever noticed how aging always gets a bad rap? People often express cynical attitudes about aging. From fears of becoming weak and fragile to the common fear of our mortality, few people seem to enjoy growing older. Luckily, there’s no need to perceive aging through such a negative filter. Our Golden Years bring abundant joys and benefits.
Fear of Aging Is Overblown
Believe it or not, some psychologists and neuroscientists agree that our fears of aging are unwarranted. In fact, the best years of our lives might actually happen during retirement.
Think about it. During our retirement years, our children are grown and gone. We finally have the freedom to downsize into a smaller home and focus on ourselves. We have the time to invest in our hobbies, interests, or self-care rituals. We can spend our time traveling, golfing, relaxing, or enjoying moments with our loved ones in ways that we never could before.
One way to live the life of your dreams during your retirement years is by finally purchasing your dream home. In fact, purchasing your own home later in life can help counteract many of society’s most common fears of aging. Also, moving into the right home allows seniors to continue aging in place. This can often be done without sacrificing independence, health, or financial stability.
Of course, the idea of purchasing your new home can seem overwhelming at first. You may not be sure where to start. Don’t worry; your family, friends, and loved ones can be an excellent resource during this time. Even if your loved ones aren’t able to help, there are many resources available to assist you. You might consider contacting the AARP, looking into homebuying grants for seniors, or even contacting a professional moving crew in your area.
Time to Downsize
Another consideration when moving is the need to downsize your belongings. Regardless of age, the need to downsize is widespread during any move. Of course, downsizing can unexpectedly trigger intense emotions as you sort through your many items.
It’s difficult to consider parting with your most beloved possessions. Sometimes, it’s helpful to have a family member or loved one assist you with this process. Together, you can go through your belongings, deciding what to keep, what to donate, and what to throw in the dumpster.
What About Retirement Communities?
The decision to move into a retirement community also involves its own special considerations. First, you’ll want to assess the types of housing and services provided by the retirement community. Will a high-rise unit be good for you long-term, or would a one-story duplex be better? Can you afford the higher upfront costs of a continuing care community? For many retirees, continuing care is worth the investment as our needs often change as we age.
Whether you ultimately decide to move into an assisted living community with like-minded peers or whether you opt instead to purchase that beach house of your dreams, retirement can be an exciting time for relocating. After determining what you can afford and where you want to live, you have a wide variety of options for making your dream happen. Good luck!